Your Take: Country Music Tragedies
Almost exactly 50 years ago on February 3, 1959, a plane crash in Iowa killed three rock and roll pioneers. The Day the Music Died, as it was coined in Don McLean’s “American Pie,” marked the loss of Buddy Holly, Ritchie Valens and J.P. “The Big Bopper” Richardson (who wrote George Jones’ first No. 1 hit “White Lightning”).
Country music legend Waylon Jennings came close to being on that flight as well, giving up his seat at the last minute for Richardson. In a 1999 interview with CMT.com, Waylon recalled that night:
“I remember the last time I saw Buddy. He had me go get us some hot dogs. He was leaning back against the wall in a cane-bottom chair and he was laughing at me. He said, ‘So you’re not going with us tonight on the plane, huh? Well, I hope your ol’ bus freezes up. It’s 40-below out there and you’re gonna get awful cold.’ So I said, ‘Well, I hope your ol’ plane crashes.’”
“I was so afraid for many years that somebody was going to find out I said that. Somehow I blamed myself. Compounding that was the guilty feeling that I was still alive. I hadn’t contributed anything to the world at that time compared to Buddy. Why would he die and not me? It took a long time to figure that out, and it brought about some big changes in my life — the way I thought about things.”
Jennings went on to leave his own mark on music, of course, but in a genre famous for its losin’ and leavin’ songs, it’s no surprise the county music world has seen its own fair share of death and tragedy.
What untimely death of a country music musician (be it suicide, accidental or otherwise) do you think has had the biggest impact on the genre?
Additionally, Alan Jackson’s latest single “Sissy’s Song” follows his internal struggle with the sudden loss of a close family friend. To borrow from Robert Fontenot, what was the first country music death you remember, and how did it affect you?
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February 28, 2009 at 8:47 am Permalink
The biggest impact: it has to be Hank Williams. Who know what he could have achieved artistically given more time, given that the legacy he did leave makes him one of the lodestones of country music?
My first: Keith Whitley. It seemed like such a terible waste of talent, and a life.
It’s sad that both of these were basically self-inflicted.
February 28, 2009 at 9:28 am Permalink
None. I’ve only liked country for 2.5 years now, and I’m young as well.
February 28, 2009 at 9:37 am Permalink
I agree that Hank Williams’ death had the greatest effect on country music, but entirely not for the music he could have made. If anything, Hank has a larger presence in country music because he died young–and semi-mysteriously in the back of that Caddy–and in doing so created this legacy that still looms over country music today. For you bookish types, Colin Escott says it much better than I could in the HW biography, even going so far as to cite Housman’s “To An Athlete Dying Young.”
February 28, 2009 at 9:38 am Permalink
Hank is an obvious one. Another would have to be Patsy Cline. She was only 30 at the time of the plane crashed and had a lot of good music still left in her.
February 28, 2009 at 9:50 am Permalink
While I’m too young to actually remember any of these deaths, I think Hank Williams is certainly the biggest tragedy country music has seen. Keith Whitley’s similar demise is nearly as big a loss to the genre in my opinion.
Patsy Cline, Dottie West, and Oak Ridge Boy Steve Sanders deaths were also untimely.
The plane crash that claimed the lives of seven members of Reba McEntire’s band, her tour manager, the pilot, and co-pilot also cast a cloud over the country music community – but made way for one of the greatest albums ever, For My Broken Heart.
February 28, 2009 at 12:05 pm Permalink
I’m not sure about “impact on the genre,” I figure the only way to that is to be alive and influence it, but the most Hank Williams’ morphine and whiskey related death in the back of his Caddy is the most mythical and Patsy Cline’s plane crash just outside of Camden, Tennessee had the most impact on the country music community at the time.
February 28, 2009 at 12:13 pm Permalink
I would have to say Gram Parsons because of the impact he was starting to make and the impact he might have made later.
February 28, 2009 at 12:30 pm Permalink
I’m barely 30 years old so I haven’t had any that affected me all that much but I was very shocked when John Denver died. Not that I was a fan outside a few songs or anything, but yeah. The other was a guy named Buck Jones. He was a fantastic singer from Texas who was killed while walking on the side of a road.
February 28, 2009 at 12:31 pm Permalink
I don’t think any of the ones I listed had a big impact on the genre.
February 28, 2009 at 1:58 pm Permalink
I remember when Conway Twitty passed away. It was like he was a friend or someone you really knew as he had that impact on his fans. I grew up listening to him on the ole 8 tracks and cassette tapes my dad had. We use to go to his concerts any time he was in the area and always had a good time at those shows. It would be amazing to have seen how many more soulful songs he would bring over the radio airwaves.
Others I could think of would be Tammy Wynette, and then when Johnny Cash, Buck Owens Eddy Arnold, & Porter Wagoner died, people really seemed to take notice that a lot of our legends are fading away.
Even when Chris Ledoux passed away, it seemed like country’s connection to the old west was lost. When Bill Monroe passed away, bluegrass music lost its founding father & biggest influences of the genre. Even the Opry isn’t the same without Minnie Pearl cracking jokes and yelling out her infamous “Howwwdeee” to the crowd that hollered it right back with enthusiasm.
February 28, 2009 at 3:02 pm Permalink
I was only 7 when Conway Twitty died. But I remember after he died when my parents would tuck me in at night and say my prayers I would always add that God take care of Conway Twitty too.
February 28, 2009 at 3:32 pm Permalink
I didn’t get into country music til 1990. When I first came to Nashville with high hopes of a songwriting career, one of the first pro writers I met was John Jarrard. Here was a guy with a dozen top hits under his belt, blind, and basically falling apart little by little to diabetes. Despite the war he fought, he was always willing to lend a helping hand to the new guys on the block.
It was very inspiring to know John, albeit briefly. It was a sad day when he finally layed down his sword but I’ll never forget the battle he waged.
February 28, 2009 at 5:52 pm Permalink
I agree that the biggest impact on the genre was the death of Hank Williams. The one that I actually first remember, though, was the murder of Stringbean and his wife. I watched Hee Haw weekly as a child. Around that same time (or maybe a little earlier), Johnny Cash did a “History of Country Music” on his show and he showed old film clips of deceased artists (which was not common at the time – remember, no YouTube). I remember that seeing Patsy Cline alive and singing actually haunted me for a time!
February 28, 2009 at 6:19 pm Permalink
jim croce’s death was a tragedy. his music still stirs me. while not officially country back then, he would be today.
February 28, 2009 at 6:25 pm Permalink
Like Juli said, from everything I’ve read, Hank’s enormous presence in country is largely [i]because[/i] of his untimely death.
Another person that comes to mind for me, although he’s not strictly country, is John Denver. My dad was a huge fan of his, so that news had a big impact for me.
February 28, 2009 at 6:26 pm Permalink
Damnit, how do you italicize? lol
February 28, 2009 at 7:18 pm Permalink
SW–Absolutely love your Conway story. My mom ran into him in an airport once, and he kissed her on the cheek. That has become a legendary story in our family.
I remember when Waylon died. I hadn’t really gotten into his music at that point, but my dad was a huge fan. We were at Myrtle Beach, SC, for the weekend, and I remember coming up to the condo we were in and seeing him about a foot from the TV watching the breaking story on CNN. They were talking about his son Shooter, which is the first time I’d ever heard of him. I remember Dad saying what a loss that would be to country music. I didn’t know much about Waylon’s music then, but now I would give anything to have seen him in concert.
February 28, 2009 at 8:16 pm Permalink
Drew – use the “less than” / “greater than” signs instead of the brackets. :-)
February 28, 2009 at 8:30 pm Permalink
I think that week in March 1963 when Patsy Cline, Hawkshaw Hawkins, and Cowboy Copas died in a plane crash, followed a few days later by the death of Jack Anglin, has got to be one of the darkest, if not THE darkest week in country music history.
For deaths that occurred during my lifetime, the death of Keith Whitley has to be the most tragic, due to his young age and the senselessness of it. A co-worker and fellow country music enthusiast told me about it and I felt like I’d been punched in the gut.
Then, on June 5, 1993, my family was planning a surprise 50th birthday party for my dad. I was on my way to the 7-11 to buy a bag of ice when the word came over the radio that Conway Twitty had died. A wave of sadness just passed over me.
And then there was that night in April 1998 when I was getting ready to go to bed. I’ve always listened to the radio when I go to bed. I turned the radio on, right in the middle of “Stand By Your Man” and just knew instinctively that something bad had happened, because it was rare to hear the classics on country radio in the late 90s. When the song ended, the DJ came on and announced that it was “Stand By Your Man” by “the late Tammy Wynette.” I experienced the same feeling of loss that I’d felt with Conway’s passing. I’d grown up listening to both of them, and thought of country music without them was inconceivable. I still miss them.
February 28, 2009 at 9:19 pm Permalink
Great stories about Conway. I do remember his passing vaguely. I was only about 9 at the time, but my Aunt Jackie was a huge fan of his – and I remember her being really upset about it. I didn’t understand why at the time, but after acquainting myself with his catalog, I have to agree it was a tremendous loss for country music.
Some of Conway’s last few singles were still hits. He was kind of getting lost in the country boom of the time, but I think he would have managed to have several more radio hits had he stayed with us.
March 1, 2009 at 2:20 am Permalink
As far as a death impacting the genre, rather than the impact of an artist who happened to have died, I’d say it has to go to Gram.
Hank and Patsy made clear and distinct contributions to the genre and though they would have continued to make amazing music, I can’t imagine that qualitatively it would have changed their impact much. Plus, Hank would have suffered the indignity of being left behind like many of his contemporaries were.
Meanwhile Gram was just hitting his stride, and though his musical precense still resonates (especially in Southern California), I think that given time he could have made an incredibly powerful impact on mainstream country music (which doesn’t really acknowledge him as a contributor). Who knows, if he’d have lived maybe we wouldn’t be talking about how big of an influence The Eagles had on country, maybe the influence would have been Country-Rock of the Parsons variety.
March 1, 2009 at 9:26 am Permalink
But the impact Parsons was having affected rock music, not country. He was (along with others) certainly influential in the creation of country rock. But I’m not sure he had the least impact on country as a genre: what changed in country music because of him?
March 1, 2009 at 10:11 am Permalink
Emmylou Harris.
March 1, 2009 at 11:37 am Permalink
The first I remember was Jim Reeves – the first one to really hit me was the death of Don Rich in a motorcyloe accident in 1974. With his death I knew that there were be no more of the classic Buck Owens sound. Indeed,after Don’s death both Buck and son Buddy Alan seemed to lose interest in their own careers.
I don’t know if his death changed the direction of country music but it would be nice to be able to listen to even more of those classic harmonies.
March 1, 2009 at 11:47 am Permalink
“Emmylou Harris.” ??????
She’s still with us.
Here’s some lesser known country tragedies that I remember:
Johnny Horton, best known for “The Battle of New Orleans” was killed instantly in a head-on collision with a drunk driver in Texas on Nov 5, 1960.
Jim Reeves, with hits like “He’ll Have to Go,” & “Four Walls” died when the small aircraft he was piloting crashed during a thunderstorm near Nashville, Tennessee in 1964.
March 1, 2009 at 11:57 am Permalink
Sorry NorthTexas, that was my response to the previous message, as in what Gram Parsons’ contribution was to country music.
March 1, 2009 at 12:08 pm Permalink
““Emmylou Harris.” ??????
She’s still with us.”
She wasn’t being named as a dead country artist, she was being named as an answer to the question, “what changed in country music because of [Gram Parsons]?” It’s a good answer, but it’s also pretty much the only one, and that’s an indication of how modest his direct impact was.
I’m surprised and disappointed that no one’s mentioned the early death of Jimmie Rodgers with respect to impact on country music.
March 1, 2009 at 1:44 pm Permalink
If turning Harris on to country music was Parsons’s contribution to the genre, then his early death made no difference. I was a fan of his, and made unhappy by his death, but I wouldn’t say his dying made a difference to country any more than Janis Joplin’s death did (speaking of deaths that just devastated me at the time).
March 1, 2009 at 2:03 pm Permalink
I would have to say the country music death that most affected my life would have to be Chris Ledoux. Coming from a family of rodeo cowboys, I have many a fond memory of the cab of a truck, with Chris Ledouxs music playing in the background. Ill never forget sitting in my dorm room and my brother calling me and breaking the news.
March 1, 2009 at 2:53 pm Permalink
But I’m not sure he had the least impact on country as a genre: what changed in country music because of him?
That was sort of my point, he was on a clear path as a country artist and I’m speculating that he would have made an impact on country music were it not for his untimely and tragic death.
March 1, 2009 at 3:37 pm Permalink
I don’t see it; he wasn’t a country artist at all, IMO. He was a rocker.
March 1, 2009 at 4:05 pm Permalink
Well, Parsons was a rock guy with country aspirations and some country songwriting capabilities. But he was also really young, and demonstrably short on the kind of stick-to-it-iveness needed to really pursue a country music career, so predictions as to what his role might have been are iffy; for the kind of persistence and sensibilities he would have had to develop, look instead to Chris Hillman, one of the guys he ran off.
March 1, 2009 at 4:25 pm Permalink
“If turning Harris on to country music was Parsons’s contribution to the genre, then his early death made no difference”
That’s a fair point – but you could argue that it was his death that released Emmylou to have her solo career, which was definitely influential in country music in many ways. I presume they would have stayed collaborators at least for a while, and maybe Emmylou never would have emerged as a solo act to be reckoned with.
March 1, 2009 at 5:51 pm Permalink
keith whitley is mine….isnt sad that of all the tragedys keith is the only one that has yet to be inducted to the hall of fame
March 1, 2009 at 6:00 pm Permalink
Well, there are people–some possibly already mentioned above–for whom death was a terrific career move. I won’t speculate out loud as to what artists might have had larger reputations (or myths) if they’d checked out at points a lot earlier than they did, but you know that it would have happened for some. I think when we’re young all deaths same like huge tragedies–a little later, like inevitabilities, a piece of the cycle. Country music understands that, by the way–no matter how much it sentimentalizes the dead–which can be a lot.
March 1, 2009 at 7:21 pm Permalink
I think the current state of Top 40 country music is a tradegy and well deserving of a mercy killing…
March 1, 2009 at 8:32 pm Permalink
I know this isnt a thread to discuss Gram Parsons to death, but my two cents is that he would have continued to do things half way like he always did. His problem was that he didnt have to succeed to eat, so why try hard enough to make it into work?
April 17, 2009 at 10:50 pm Permalink
Personally, Chris Ledoux’s death hit me pretty hard. I’m from South Dakota, and I was familiar with Ledoux before he became famous. Then after he came out with that damn “Copenhagen” song, everyone in the world thought it was my favorite song because I chewed Copenhagen, so I had gotten to the point where I didn’t like him that much, through no fault of his own.
I heard about his death on the radio in the tractor, and I just sat there for a long time, and realized I really did like him a lot.
April 17, 2009 at 10:52 pm Permalink
Barry M, it is said that the executives of a battered RCA were in a meeting discussing how they were going to keep their company alive when news of Elvis’ death broke the airwaves, and they actually cheered…
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