Phil Vassar – “This is My Life”
Are we finally going to stop pretending that Phil Vassar is a country artist? While Phil has written some of the greatest contemporary pop-country hits and the open-minded may accept most of his singles into the country fold, anyone who has attended one of his frat-boy rock live shows can recognize that Vassar is more or less genreless. The lead single from his forthcoming album is the best example of this to date. We’ve come to expect the piano-rock instrumentation, vocal distortion and even the ear-splitting rocker wails, but for the most part Vassar has maintained some degree of lyrical substance. However, this song lacks any element of narrative. The refrain consists of nothing more than shouts of “this is my life” and the verses resemble a pop-rock anthem much more than any country-influenced lyric. This song is too vacuous to succeed even in the current radio climate.
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May 14, 2007 at 4:26 pm Permalink
The only song I’ve ever been crazy about by Phil is “This Is God.” I love that one.
May 14, 2007 at 5:00 pm Permalink
That’s your review? That Phil Vassar is not country?
In the first place, who cares besides you? I mean really, what difference does it make? Secondly, if you want to continue on with this crusade about country purity, your readers would be best served if you took the time to write down what defines country for you. That’s something we can talk about. But as long as you continue to point out who is NOT country in your opinion, it’s a waste of time to read it because it’s the ideas that count, not your opinion.
Sorry if this seems harsh but why do you think it matters who you think is country? Time is better spent telling us what you think IS country, not who. Then we might all learn something.
May 14, 2007 at 5:55 pm Permalink
OK. I’ll say what Matt C didn’t say.
Phil Vassar’s songs suck, his production sucks, his singing sucks. It’s just awe-inspiring in its suckage.
Whether it’s country or not is immaterial when you stink up the joint this badly.
May 14, 2007 at 9:13 pm Permalink
Funk, I’m reviewing a single sent to country radio for a country music website. Thus, that the song is not country is a very valid criticism. Furthermore, read the second half of the review: I didn’t like the song because I found it meaningless and even less country than most of the stuff that Vassar has released.
Formulating exhaustive criteria of what defines a country song would be a very difficult undertaking with a controversial result that would be just as opinionated as this review. Again, given the nature of this site and my writing for it, I don’t think that I am obligated to justify why most of the material that I review is country, just as it is not unreasonable for me to suggest that some material belongs in the genre in name only. You seem to want me to spend time proving that country songs are country rather than occasionally arguing that something playing on country radio is not.
May 14, 2007 at 9:33 pm Permalink
Thanks for the reply. I simply don’t think it’s a strong review to dismiss an artist because “it’s not country.” Just my opinion, which nobody’s paying me for (about country music anyway.) I can’t even support advertising.
You seem to suggest that an important part of country writing includes a strong narrative. Ok, that’s fair and your opinion. I think strong narrative can make a song interesting and a lot of country songs have a strong story to them, but certainly not all and probably not even most. I think it’s fair for you to say that the songs you like best contain a good story but I don’t think that is the same thing as making them country. “Lola” by the Kinks has a pretty good story, but not much country. “The Hottest Thing in Town” by Billy Joe Shaver is all country to me, but not much story.
I don’t like Vassar’s “This is My Life” as a song, but it’s got as much narrative as some weak Kenny Chesney and the like. I don’t like it because it’s lightweight but that’s the reason I don’t like a lot of what passes today for country music.
Give me some meat. Vassar can be short on meat, country fried or not. He’s best when he is convincing and so are the best country songs. Here he’s full of BS.
May 15, 2007 at 2:17 pm Permalink
I would agree with Funk – the whole “country or not country debate” has grown old and irrelevant. The “country radio” genre has become so super-defined that its a parody of itself. Myspace doesn’t even list country as a genre on its music portal!
We’ve reached a point where country is no longer an umbrella genre and instead is only what you see on the Top40, and in the process alienating several fans and artists. Furthermore, any survey of Generation Y points to a lack of interest in genre-wars, which will only increase over time as those consumers displace boomers and GenXers.
You’d be best served keeping away from these definitions.
May 15, 2007 at 2:48 pm Permalink
Ugh. Ron W. I agree with you. Phil Vassar ain’t country and he ain’t good. thats for sure.
May 16, 2007 at 9:02 am Permalink
I’ve slowly learned to separate “country” from “Country.” Small-c country is a style, big-C Country is a radio format. They’re not the same thing, and you’ll drive yourself crazy trying to make Country into country. Phil Vassar isn’t really country, but he is Country, and that’s why he’s played on Country radio.
May 16, 2007 at 1:40 pm Permalink
So you’re saying that little-c country doesn’t incorporate big-C Country?
I’ve sort of distinguished between the two as well, except in my mind the little-c country does incorporate big-C Country. I treat it like a sub-genre of country music and just call it mainstream. So really little-c country to me is an umbrella with all the little sub-genres underneath it.
May 17, 2007 at 2:41 pm Permalink
I agree, not his best work. But…hands down, he’s got the best voice in “C or c …ountry” music.
Give us more stuff like “Carlene”.
May 17, 2007 at 3:31 pm Permalink
I think of country and Country as being concentric circles. Like, George Strait is country and Country; Kenny Chesney is Country but not country; and Dale Watson is country but not Country.
May 22, 2007 at 8:15 am Permalink
The thing i am not getting is why does it matter if a song is or isn’t what one person (or more) considers to be “country”. What matters is the fact that this song (unlike some of the other country songs out there) has a lot of meaning…how can you say you think the song has no meaning?? Listen again, he is talking about life as we know it right now according to him. What makes Phil an amazing artist is that he writes, plays and sings his music. Try to listen in a way that others do and rewrite your comments when you have really listened.
May 22, 2007 at 8:32 am Permalink
“What makes Phil an amazing artist is that he writes, plays and sings his music.”
By this standard, there are a whole lot of amazing artists out there, including some really awful ones. I like Phil, though.
June 19, 2007 at 11:03 am Permalink
Oh my, first of all Phil Vassar is an amazing artist, the way he plays the piano, the way he sings, his show is excellent, keeps you moving constantly and his energy is something like Garth Brooks. The man can do it all, his band is awesome, if you’ve ever been to a show you would know that. As far as being country, most of the “country” singers nowadays, isn’t country they are “pop-country”, you can forget about sounds like Merle Haggard, Conway Twitty, Johnny Cash and the best of the rest, but that is what todays market is looking for. There are only a select few out there today that still sing “country” and they are people like, George Strait, Alan Jackson and all the other oldies that are still producing albums, so like it or not this is todays country, and personally I like it. I like Phil Vassar and all the rest. I just attended his show in New Berlin Illinois the other night, not knowing what to expect and he blew me away, Joe Diffie on the other hand had alot to be desired, he has lost his voice and couldn’t carry a tune. Phil Vassar was awesome….And so was his band that was playing things from AC/DC to I like big butts lol, and Phils Encore of Piano Man, it was wonderful. His new single is awesome too, it really hits home…..
June 20, 2007 at 5:12 pm Permalink
I am a huge Phil fan. I have every single album he has ever put out. Simply put, he is an amazing artist. Ditto to what someone already said: He writes, plays, and sings his own stuff. I could care less if Phil is defined as country. Many of his songs speak to me and that is what music is all about. However, for the purposes of this discussion, to date, this song is by far the worst one I have ever heard Phil do. Just seems like there is no specific tempo to it and parts of it sound flat to me. My adive would be to take it off the market and redo the arrangment because it is a flopper Phil.
June 27, 2007 at 10:25 am Permalink
Phil Vassar is an amazing singer. And he is an incredable preformer, his energy is unbelieveable.
He has many songs that were #1 on the chart.
Personally I think that “This Is My Life” is one of his best songs.
July 2, 2007 at 11:04 pm Permalink
Phil’s not an artist to admire for his substance and/or creativity (except that he *does* write all of his own material — not very common these days). I like him simply because his music touches my heart and makes me feel good. Of course, I am a self-proclaimed pop-country fan! It doesn’t matter to me that all of his songs (including this one!) sound alike… It’s kind of like women and our “chick flicks.” Yes, they’re predictable and full of fluff, but we like it that way. It’s hard to disagree that Phil’s concerts are “frat boy rock shows,” but who cares? He’s a great entertainer and they’re a lot of fun. Even though this is not my favorite song per say, I’ve come to love Phil’s sound and will enjoy this one just as much as the next. As far as whether or not he is truly country, I don’t think that he is any less so than his pop-country peers… (i.e.: Shania Twain, Faith Hill, Kenny Chesney, etc.)
July 5, 2007 at 6:58 pm Permalink
Vassar , THIS IS MY LIFE. GREAT SONG. KEEP PUMPING out THE GREAT MUSIC. See this guy’s show . Great act.
July 17, 2007 at 7:18 pm Permalink
okay if you dont think this is country.. try your listening ears?? this is clearly country and i absolutely love it!! so thanks phil!!
July 18, 2007 at 9:23 am Permalink
As opposed to what other kind of ears, Curtis?
July 18, 2007 at 9:50 am Permalink
I am not a fan of Phil Vassars songs. I am a fan though of his ability to write and sing. I recognize the fact the man has a lot of talent, even though his songs dont appeal to me a whole lot.
July 24, 2007 at 7:04 pm Permalink
I think that this is an excellent song by Phil!! He says exactly what everyone is thinking!! There are not many songs out there that talk about liphe…Phil takes pride in what he does, and I that’s what counts. Country radio likes the song…and you can’t really say it’s not country..what is country these days anyway?! Times are changin!! I LOVE the song!!! It’s a theme phor many people out there!!
July 30, 2007 at 7:46 am Permalink
I’ll listen to anything Phil sings, but so far, my all-time favorite Phil tune is “Last Day of My Life”. I listen to his CDs while writing and, whoa, what an inspiration he’s been, especially when I’m creating ‘romance scenes’!
I think he has one of the sexy-est male recording voices, period. And as somebody else said here earlier, he doesn’t need to be a purist to entertain his legion of country fans.
Like the sages say: If it ain’t broke, don’t mess with it.
September 9, 2007 at 12:55 pm Permalink
While the above noted critic may find comfort in his thesarus and comfortable lifestyle. The oh so obvious “country” appeal of this song. While it may not be completely traditional country music in a well educated and college degree sence. It is country music in the finest of Country Music Tradition and adhears to the traditional sense of country music. I mean traditionally country music is about being of the heart and not the book learned definitions anyway. While it might have a sound that doesn’t fit in your narrow view point. Remember the King of Rock n Roll started out singing something that was not rock and roll. ;-)
Also of note as of this week this song which was of the critics opinion and I quote :
“This song is too vacuous to succeed even in the current radio climate.”
Even so it is STILL on the top 40 and going strong. Now I may be uneducated but I am pretty sure that that means that it is being played (or overplayed if you will) on the radio. Ahh there is goes again on the local station, again.
Maybe there was something “vacuous” mentioned on this page. Personally I think that the only this would meet the definition of that word is a certain critics opinion. (IMHRO)
(In My Humble Rednecked Opinion)
July 9, 2008 at 12:57 pm Permalink
First off I want to say I love country music but I have to agree that Phil Vassar SUCKS!!! I am so sick of hearing his song about getting married uncle Joe and Bill haven’t spoken since 88 or whatever the hell the lyrics are. If anything this music should be considered POP. I wish the radio stations would give this crap a break and play some more true country music. Save this garbage for 40+ year old moms while they drive there kids to soccor practice in their mini-vans.
July 9, 2008 at 1:50 pm Permalink
great review – short and to the point.
only thing that’s perhaps missing is the question: what makes you think we’d care about your life, phil?
July 9, 2008 at 1:56 pm Permalink
“Save this garbage for 40+ year old moms while they drive there kids to soccer practice in their mini-vans“,
Gary, that’s exactly what country radio stations are targeting nowadays. Oh, don’t forget the soccer-playing daughters too…
June 10, 2009 at 8:27 pm Permalink
This is actually one of my favorite songs, country, non-country, or otherwise.
June 10, 2009 at 9:17 pm Permalink
old thread but the review is right on the money. This song is beyond overproduced and I don’t hear the country either.
July 28, 2009 at 5:31 pm Permalink
Good God…how long are we gonna sit and discuss if Phil is a good singer or not or if you like him or not. who really cares who or what you like for real. Phil is a country singer…defined not by you critics but by those who define country music. He has had entertainer of the year awards as well as a lot of number one songs…so your idea that he isn’t country is stupid and really meaningless..again…i willl say he is an amazing ARTIST who writes,sings and performs his own music. Yea I get defensive when i see crap like he sucks…do you know him? no you do not…so you can say his song sucks in your opinion but you can’t judge him. Further…i do know him and he is like a brother to me and it pisses me off that you would spend your time bashing Phil and his songs…put it simple…don’t listen if you don’nt like it and keep your opinion to yourself. Those of you who say you like his music Thanks…I think he is amazing too
August 23, 2009 at 11:44 am Permalink
This song is about socialism, the problems with capitalism, and the issues with big government in it for themselves.
I find that quite an important meaning.
August 23, 2009 at 10:38 pm Permalink
Phil is a country singer…defined not by you critics but by those who define country music.
And who might that be??
August 23, 2009 at 11:03 pm Permalink
“This song is too vacuous to succeed even in the current radio climate.”
…I hope you’re kidding.
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