Phil Stacey – “If You Didn’t Love Me”

Jim Malec | January 15th, 2008 Email Share

After having a bit of fun at Count Stacey’s expense in my 2008 Country Preview Series, I decided that it was only fair to give Phil and his “Philnatics” a thoughtful review of debut single “If You Didn’t Love Me.” And what better timing than on Day 1 of American Idol’s seventh season.

The best compliment I can muster for this is to say, simply, that it’s not that bad. Co-written by Gary LeVox from Rascal Flatts, “If You Didn’t Love Me” is considerably better, lyrically and melodically, than most of the material on the trio’s latest album Still Feels Good.

There is a solid emotional core that binds this lyric together; we all have people to whom we are greatfull for their love and support, and so there is a fundamental truth to the song’s message. And that message is otherwise well executed–even the entirely unnecessary inner-repeat of “If you didn’t love/If you didn’t love me” at the beginning of the chorus, an entertaining parlor trick if not literarily masterful, adds to the song’s overall sense of compositional competency.

Unfortunately, that’s where my praise for this record ends.

What troubles me the most is the same thing that troubled me every single time I watched Stacey perform on American Idol 6: the fact that while he is a capable singer, his voice has little color.

If you stripped away from your favorite male country artist all of the sonic qualities that make him sound different than every other singer, you’d be left with someone who sounds a lot like Stacey–an artist whose voice, not possessing any particular twang, grit, depth, throatiness, whininess, or other significantly defining characteristic, is the epitome of vanilla.

There are certain dangers that come with a show like American Idol. It can thrust artists into the public view before they’ve paid their dues, before they’ve taken the time to go through the process of refining their art and learning what works and what doesn’t. What’s even more dangerous than that, however, is the fact that Idol has the potential make an artist and his fans think he’s better than he really is. And I’m afraid that’s the case with Phil Stacey–a nice person, a good guy, but not someone who can be reasonably considered a top-tier vocalist.

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Listen: Phil Stacey – “If You Didn’t Love Me”

  1. Chris N.
    January 15, 2008 at 4:10 pm Permalink

    You are a glutton for punishment, my friend.

  2. C. Eric Banister
    January 15, 2008 at 4:54 pm Permalink

    Hey Jim what are you doing for fun tomorrow? covering yourself in honey and running through a bee haven?

    I agree though [ducks]

  3. Dan
    January 15, 2008 at 5:16 pm Permalink

    The first two commenters pretty much summed up what’s probably about to happen, but I have to say that I completely agree with you. And I’m not sure I even like the song itself that much; it’s really not that well-written in my opinion.

    Now brace yourself.

  4. Kelly
    January 15, 2008 at 5:28 pm Permalink

    where my girls at?? Philnatic Phriends Unite!!

  5. Peter Kohan
    January 15, 2008 at 6:21 pm Permalink

    Jim – Just hope his fans are transfixed to this new season of AI and soon latch onto some other singer to obsess over. After posting this I’d gladly have you on my Secret Service detail – Lord knows if you’re willing to take a bullet on this…

  6. Dave S
    January 15, 2008 at 7:12 pm Permalink

    I’m so sick of American Idol and the people it generates that I could vomit.

  7. Funk
    January 15, 2008 at 7:54 pm Permalink

    I wrote a long post using every single “f” word I could think of, but of course I replaced all the “f”s with “ph.” In the end, I just couldn’t put it up. I have a life after all, and I couldn’t spend all day here arguing. Sometimes productivity conflicts with phun.

  8. Funk
    January 15, 2008 at 7:55 pm Permalink

    PS. Phil rocks!!!!

  9. Melissa
    January 15, 2008 at 9:01 pm Permalink

    Thank you for putting some thought into this review. You didn’t bash Phil, you just gave your opinion about the song.

    I’m a Philnatic. I love Phil and I love the song, and his family is wonderful. I understand that not everyone feels as I do.

    I’m not going to bash or get upset when you gave a thoughtful opinion.

  10. Melissa
    January 15, 2008 at 9:03 pm Permalink

    Oh, and one more thing, in response to Peter, I don’t watch American Idol, as a rule. Last season was the first and only season I have watched, and I don’t intend to watch again. I stumbled upon AI last year when the top 24 guys sang and saw something in Phil that drew me to him, and I was hooked. He’s the reason I watched, and I stopped when he left the show.

  11. Judith
    January 15, 2008 at 9:31 pm Permalink

    I agree with Melissa. I love Phil, not only for his voice, but for what I like to see in a man: love for his God, country, wife, and children. And he is the nicest person you can ever meet. I appreciate your assessment of Phil, even though I disagree. Now if you had done that from the beginning, the Philnatics might have been a lot nicer. For me, it’s always uncalled for to belittle someone you may not think so highly of, especially if you haven’t taken the time to know them.

  12. Diane
    January 15, 2008 at 9:32 pm Permalink

    Agreed you at least listened to the song and put some thought into your review. Not every one likes the same kind of singing voice. I, for one, do not like twangy, whiny, nasally singing. And I realize not everyone likes American Idol, however, it has uncovered some really good talent, such as Kelly Clarkson, Jennifer Hudson, Chris Daughtrey, and Carrie Underwood. I have watched AI since the first season. I am not a teeny bopper,in fact I have a son a little younger than Phil. I am not an obsessed fan. In fact, I never even voted for anyone on the show until last season when I voted for Phil. It was not only his voice that appealed to me, but his realness, his humble spirit and the love and appreciation he has for his wife. There is nothing phony or conceited about Phil Stacey. He is the real deal and I will continue to support him. Thanks again for your unbiased review.

  13. Vicki
    January 15, 2008 at 9:42 pm Permalink

    Thanks for at least giving Phil a fair shake. I have to admit, as much as I love Phil myself, the song had to grow on me. I think the future ones will be better. It still is not showcasing the talent this guy has. He can sing notes most people can’t even attempt. He was in a singing group with my son in college. So, believe me I know first hand just how tallented Phil Stacey really is. I say we just sit back and wait and see. I think God will bless Phil because of his perserverance and his walk with God. Phil has already paid some dues, no details, just know that he has. This could not happen to a nicer young man or a more deserving young man. I still give the thumbs up for Phil and I am very proud to be a devoted Philnatic!!!

  14. Leticia
    January 15, 2008 at 9:48 pm Permalink

    Hello, I’d like to say, as a Phil fan, thank you for sharing your opinion and giving this 2nd review some thought. No one is asking that we share opinions. How boring would that be? I like Phil’s voice, but I became a fan because of his unquestionable love for his wife and children. He has amazing strength and character. That might not take him far in the music industry, but it will have outstanding benefits for his personal life. I also have faith in his talent and feel as if he will have amazing success, even if he doesn’t become the next in top sales. Thanks again for your honest review.

  15. Mike W.
    January 16, 2008 at 4:05 am Permalink

    The more “Country” music we get like this, the more I retreat to the Austin music scene.

  16. SW
    January 16, 2008 at 9:18 am Permalink

    I’d never heard of Phil Stacey until today; if only I could have kept ahold of my ignorance. This song makes me think back to an Alan Jackson George Strait collaboration: “Murder on Music Row”

  17. Chris N.
    January 16, 2008 at 9:44 am Permalink

    These Philnatics sure seem like phriendly pholks.

  18. Carol
    January 16, 2008 at 9:48 am Permalink

    The very things you said are absent from Phil Stacey’s voice are the things that make him more palatable to me. I find grit, throatiness, and whining irritating over time, whereas a well-trained, clear tone with interesting vocal embellishments emminently more listenable. Fortunately, there’s a singer to satisfy every ear and and I think we’ll see that Phil Stacey is going to develop his own style and an enthusiasstic following.

  19. Jim Malec
    January 16, 2008 at 9:54 am Permalink

    I would just like to point out that I did write “or other significantly defining characteristics”. I obviously didn’t mean to say that any good singer will be whiny or throaty.

  20. Funk
    January 16, 2008 at 3:17 pm Permalink

    I agree with Melissa. I love Phil, not only for his voice, but for what I like to see in a man: love for his God, country, wife, and children.

    Hey, sounds like Phil Vassar without the phraternity. Wink wink, nod, nod.

    Honestly, how much to we know about anyone we see only on a television screen or hear on a radio or meet one or two times. In an industry that relies heavily on PR, I try to pay attention only to the music. Over the years and only with long times do we get to know a little bit about the singers and bands who want us to love them.

  21. Peter Kohan
    January 16, 2008 at 5:45 pm Permalink

    Way to tell it Pfunk (as opposed to P-Funk). :)

  22. hairandtoenails
    January 16, 2008 at 6:16 pm Permalink

    Funk I agree! We have to be careful about buying into PR.

    PR people want us to think like this “Hey, I’m patriotic. Hey, Daryl Worley is patriotic. I know so because he wrote a patriotic song and puts the U.S. flag on his CD cover. He said he is sincere about this and country singers are sincere people. I know they are sincere because they always tell me how sincere they are! Gee we’re both patriotic, I guess I should support this guy’s music.”

    The trick, of course, is that if the listener is really interested in supporting patriotism, there are a lot better ways of doing it than buying a Country music CD.

  23. mel
    January 17, 2008 at 6:05 pm Permalink

    There is truly something special about Phil and his voice. His voice has a beautiful tone, and my heart is always touched when he sings. I think it’s because his beautiful spirit shines through. I’ve heard him play the piano and sing, and he is very talented. I can’t wait for his album.

  24. Peter Kohan
    January 17, 2008 at 9:31 pm Permalink

    So now we’re hearing from Paula Abdul under a pseudonym?

  25. Judith
    January 18, 2008 at 6:53 am Permalink

    For your information, Funk and Hair and Toenails, I haven’t bought into anything. Phil has served in the Navy as a singer besides writing a song about the flag, so I don’t think his patrtiotism is superficial. And like Vicki said earlier on, Phil and her son were in the same singing group in college, so she knows what she is talking about. And no, Peter, Mel is not Paula under a pseudonym, as much as you might like to think so. She is one of those Philnatics, whom you have decide to rudely attack. Sorry, but we will be around, so deal with it.

  26. Vicki
    January 18, 2008 at 10:54 am Permalink

    To all the naysayers, I will tell you Phil Stacey is a wonderful young man. He went to college with my son and he is just very down to earth and totally a nice guy!!! This is no PR junk, this is an honest person telling you exactly the way it really is. Phil loves his country, his wife, his kids, his pfans, his God. He is the real deal. Anyone would be better for knowing Phil Stacey. Phil Stacey has all the qualities a real American Idol should possess. I always said an American Idol would be someone I would want my kids to look up to and be like, I would be very proud to have my son be like Phil Stacey. Actually he pretty much is. You get my point. Any PR that comes out about Phil that is good, believe it, he is that person.

  27. Brady Vercher
    January 18, 2008 at 11:06 am Permalink

    I don’t think anyone is doubting the claim that Phil is a model citizen, but I don’t see how that helps determine the quality of his music. I like the guy just fine, but from everything I’ve heard, I don’t find any of his music worthy of praise. Vanilla seems to be an apt description. And remember, a knock against his music isn’t necessarily a knock against Phil.

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