Mark Wills – “The Things We Forget”
Songwriters: Connie Harrington & Wendell Mobley
Continuing the now (at least) decade-long trend of lyrics that are boiled down to their most basic substances, “The Things We Forget” follows in a long line of contemporary songs that chip away at any semblance of cognitive relevance that remains in mainstream country music. It is, at the same time, a laundry list of loosely related “country” images and a song that places Wills in the role of advice giver, ineffectually doling out a series of sufficiently vague but nonetheless appealing concepts in an attempt to be all things to every potential listener.
“Where we come from/Where we’re going/How to live right here in the moment,” Wills sings, without ever actually talking about any of the above or defining them in any relevant detail, a fact which ultimately leads me to ask the following question: What the hell is this song about?
The answer is that the song is about nothing. Like so much of today’s mainstream country music, “The Things We Forget” isn’t a story, and it hardly contains what could be considered a lyrical hook. To the contrary, “The Things We Forget,” both in title and in execution, is a concept that has no substance of its own, but which is designed to be irrelevant, inoffensive, and nondescript. It is nothing but noise, the equivalent of elevator music for people whose elevator just happens to be a muddy 4×4.
And in that sense, I find the song’s title somewhat ironic–the things we forget, it seems, if “we” are the Nashville songwriting community, are things like lyrical specificity, story telling, and melody. Remember when songs could be pretty? Vulnerable? Sexy? Heartbreaking? Remember when a melody could roll and pound rhythmically, like waves against a beach, or flow calmly like a lazy river? Remember when every song didn’t sound exactly the same as the one before it and the one after it?
Remember when musicians treated us like we had brains?
The things we forget.
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September 30, 2008 at 4:04 pm Permalink
Not a great song by any stretch of the imagination, but the lyrics aren’t quite as inane as they seemed when taken out of context in the review. I didn’t have any trouble understanding what the song was about, though the theme has been done better many times before. This song’s fatal flaw is that it is bland, bland, bland.
September 30, 2008 at 5:30 pm Permalink
i started to listen to this song. then i remember the last note or so. i don’t remember the middle at all. it’s completely pointless. it’s inconsequential. it’s unnecessary. blah.
September 30, 2008 at 10:24 pm Permalink
Meh.
October 1, 2008 at 3:45 am Permalink
“the things we forget” – this song is easily one of them.
October 1, 2008 at 10:35 pm Permalink
^^^ Yep that about covers it.
October 2, 2008 at 2:21 am Permalink
it’s so funny how you clowns do your reviews. You will bash a song and then say they shoulda done this and then when a song has what you said song “A” shoulda had, you go ahead and bash it… there’s a reason you guys aren’t the ones writing songs for these artists…
October 2, 2008 at 2:27 am Permalink
That comment was almost as unspecific as the song in question.
October 2, 2008 at 3:14 am Permalink
” …there’s a reason you guys aren’t the ones writing songs for these artists…”
Same goes for you.
October 2, 2008 at 4:41 am Permalink
“…there’s a reason you guys aren’t the ones writing songs for these artists…”
There’s a reason why you aren’t the one writing reviews for this publication…
October 2, 2008 at 10:18 pm Permalink
Catchy beat, lyrics highly repetative and going now where, i understand what he is singing about, but hell most songs today are talking about home and the important things
October 5, 2008 at 6:18 am Permalink
Mark lost me after “Wish You Were Here”
October 5, 2008 at 1:55 pm Permalink
A reviewer of a recent Collin Raye song noted that it was unnerving to hear him apparently trying to “ape” the vocal style of Rascal Flatts’ lead singer.
Being a fan of Wills circa his sophomore CD, which contained I Do (Cherish You) and Don’t Laugh At Me, You can count me similarly unnerved to hear Wills apparently trying to crib from Keith Urban on this cut… though to be fair, the blame might more properly rest with his production team.
The lyrics (as already mentioned) aren’t very moving in an environment where half of country music is primed (at least partially) to trigger nostalgia in listeners. It doesn’t help that the song opens with experiences with such specificity, as farm work, or that the message is forced into the poetic structure in such a way that some lines, like /I sure do love that sound/ in the first stanza, seem to have no innate purpose except to close a couplet.
That is, unless the writer was afraid listeners would think he was talking about the *smell* of /that tailgate rattle/ and /tires on gravel/.
I don’t *hate* the song, I retain some nostalgic affection for Wills as a passable interpreter of good material, and I commiserate with his struggle to continue his career with cast-off material, having little to no evident talent at songcraft himself. But this song isn’t going on my iPod.
October 13, 2008 at 12:48 am Permalink
Jim Malec
October 2, 2008 at 4:41 am Permalink
“…there’s a reason you guys aren’t the ones writing songs for these artists�”
“There’s a reason why you aren’t the one writing reviews for this publication…”
You’re right, it’s because I went to college and have a real job.
October 13, 2008 at 12:56 am Permalink
Chief,
So writing reviews, for publications or blogs, isn’t a job? That’s a poor perception. There are MANY people who make a living writing as free-lance writers or running blogs which have a lot of readers.
October 13, 2008 at 1:39 pm Permalink
There are a lot of people that make a living off of hustling people or picking up aluminum cans from the road… Are those real jobs too?
October 13, 2008 at 1:46 pm Permalink
So you’re equating my job (or Chris N’s for that matter) to someone who hustles someone or a homeless person picking up cans? How so? I’m educated. Also are you saying that anyone who writes in the news media doesn’t have a real job? What’s a ‘real job?’
October 13, 2008 at 1:52 pm Permalink
First of all, homeless people can be educated–being homeless is not a direct indicator of a lack of education. There are many reasons why people end up on the streets.
Second, I’m not even going to get into this. If Chief has any questions about my qualifications, I’ll be happy to send you some clips from the many print publications across this great country of ours which have printed my criticism.
Chief, how would you like it if I walked into your place of work and told you that you needed to get a real job? That would be very disrespectful.
October 13, 2008 at 1:54 pm Permalink
Picking up cans can be pretty lucrative, I understand.
October 13, 2008 at 1:58 pm Permalink
“… being homeless is not a direct indicator of homelessness.”
Huh??
October 13, 2008 at 1:58 pm Permalink
it’s much more lucrative to truck cans in from another state where there’s no deposit. And no, I didn’t steal that from Seinfeld.
OK, maybe I did.
October 13, 2008 at 1:59 pm Permalink
Yeah, I fixed that. Thanks Razor.
October 13, 2008 at 2:01 pm Permalink
Sometimes I combine my two great passions by hustling people for cans.
October 13, 2008 at 2:12 pm Permalink
That seems like way more effort than it’s worth.
October 13, 2008 at 2:44 pm Permalink
It’s all about the thrill of the chase.
October 13, 2008 at 3:56 pm Permalink
Jim, I have an empty postal truck and Mothers day weekend wide-open on the calendar…whaddya say we drink a ton of bottles of mello yello and make some cash??
October 13, 2008 at 4:02 pm Permalink
I love all the Seinfeld stuff. funny. Just remember, “Serenity Now” when feeling angry when you test how far you can drive on the “e” line of your new SAAB.
October 13, 2008 at 10:59 pm Permalink
Look at the roots of our discussion… I agree this song is not very good but feel that your attacks on songs are very hypocritical and that you try to go against the grain too much, and much more than you actually believe. Look, we all know the great writers or reporters can make people believe what they say and that includes themselves. So, perhaps after you write something you indeed convince yourself of your written view. All I’m trying to say is that the writers are writers for a reason and you going against the grain trying to be different and trying to come across as superior is foolish sometimes. Sure, songs like Kenny Chesney’s Shiftwork are absolutely retarded and there is no reason why they should be played, but i think you take hypocritical stands too often and try to go against the radio too much for the simple sake of going against it.
October 13, 2008 at 11:00 pm Permalink
Like I said, there is a reason these people are successful song writers, you bashing certain songs for silly reasons just shows a grudge or bias against certain artists and certain styles.
October 14, 2008 at 3:41 am Permalink
I respect your opinion, I don’t understand how you can say that I “go against the radio too much for the simple sake of going against it,” when I am probably the most radio-friendly author at The 9513.
I’ve given positive reviews to Taylor Swift’s “Love Story,” and Jewel’s “Stronger Woman”–hell, I even gave a positive review to Justin Moore’s “Back That Thing Up.” I think I have a clear record of treating mainstream “radio” artists the same way that I treat everyone else.
What is it about my reviews that you find hypocritical? You do realize that there are currently six people who contribute to The 9513, right?
October 17, 2008 at 11:06 pm Permalink
I love it how this review started as a review and then quickly turned into everyone taking jabs at one another because of their opinions.
As a fan and a potential buyer of this music, not a critic who wants to make a name for myself in blogging, I’m going to say that I like this song. It’s catchy and memorable to me. I can’t wait to hear the rest of the record!
March 17, 2009 at 6:47 pm Permalink
Wow totally love this song!! Yall suck if you dont like it I mean come on. Its really fun my friends and I love it we listn to it all the time!
wooowhooo u rock!
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